To Tutor, Or Not To Tutor

Today's world is increasingly competitive. Many parents, in an effort to make life easier for their kids, are digging deep into their bank accounts to help improve their children's scholastic performance. This desire has made supplementary education (tutoring) a major growth industry.

From hip commercials for educational services promising significant results "in just six weeks" to bookstore shelves full of expensive self-help guides, parents are inundated with reminders that there may be more they can do to help their children make it through school. Whether through misplaced guilt or the feeling that more is better, parents can easily be overwhelmed by academic promises from the marketplace.

Ask the Teacher

Before selecting a tutoring service, parents should seek advice from their child's teacher. Be warned that many teachers have a negative view of tutors. Although their parents might be loath to admit it, some children learn the art of manipulation before they master the three R's, and many tutors fall victim to clever students who cry ignorance for the purpose of having the tutor essentially do their work for them. All seems well until the child has to write a test or perform an in-class assignment without benefit of the tutor's special help. It's certainly not something that slips by all tutors, but it happens.

How Much Will It Cost

Tutoring can range anywhere from $10 per hour for an elementary or high school student to $80 per hour for a consultant to help with a special need (prices vary mostly dependent upon training). Tutors may work one-on-one with your child, with small groups of students, or in larger workshops to review for exams. The business of education outside the school system extends far beyond the individual tutor to educational summer camps, student mentorship programs, and specialized assistance that can cost literally hundreds of dollars. The educational assistance industry is completely unregulated, so it is of the utmost importance that parents take a buyer-beware approach.

Some Things to Consider

So, what's a parent to do? As in any other service you might buy, don’t be taken in by good salesmanship and promises.

If your child is having difficulty because school makes him or her feel overworked or bored, tutoring may not be the answer. Many tutoring programs can be more of the same and may intensify these learning difficulties, especially if the student is not self-motivated. A lot of turoting is of the "skill and drill" variety and this can quickly lead to boredom (even TV game shows are only half an hour long). A system of "test, teach, test" does not necessarily lead to enhanced learning.

Private enterprise educational services may be overly optimistic (can you say exaggerate?) about what they can accomplish for your child. Some even rely on parent's guilt about being too busy to help out their kids, or fears about their children's future. This guilt and worry can be very expensive.

Unless it is based on a proper assessment of a student's abilities, a tutoring program may easily lead to unrealistic expectations for students and parents.

One of the criticisms of mandatory provincial exams in the higher grades is that teachers are forced to "teach to the test." Preparing for the process of the test becomes the focus rather than the actual content. In other words, real learning is replaced with stressful rote memorization. Beware of learning services that show test results as an example of academic success for your child. It is easy to "teach" a child twenty answers and then ask the twenty questions that match them. When a child finishes school, he or she will quickly forget the answers to tests. It is the skills and knowledge he or she walks away with that are truly important.

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How Do I Know If My Child Needs A Tutor and What Are My Options?

If you have any concerns at all about your child's educational status, the first step is to talk to your child's teacher. Especially in the case of students in younger grades, the teacher may spend more of the day in direct contact with your child than you do. Advice from your child's teacher or school counsellor may help solve the problem, and may enlighten you as to aspects of your child's performance you may not even be aware of. If help is still needed there are many options.

A lot of schools now offer peer-tutoring programs. Peer-tutoring, in or out of the classroom setting, allows for one-on-one help from someone your child's own age. The child is less likely to feel talked down to but may feel insecure about revealing weaknesses to peers. On the plus side, it benefits both the students who need extra help and the tutors who get to review through explanation.

Everyday there are more educational software programs on the market. Some students may enjoy learning on computers and it may be worth checking out programs available for your child's problem area. Be forewarned there is no regulation of educational software products. Pretty much anyone can throw together a program and claim it's educational. Some are excellent but you should play "buyer beware" and comparison shop to the hilt when considering educational software.

Nothing beats parental assistance. It's good for you, it shows your children you really care about their performance and it offers a good excuse for quality time with your child. If you want to help your child out at home, you may also wish to purchase supplementary materials. Many books, workbooks, video and audio cassettes, and software packages are available to help you and your child improve educational performance.

Of course private programs are an option and you shouldn't let the previous warnings above frighten you away from them. Most tutoring services offer well-trained tutors and honest service, and many even employ fully-trained teachers. A growing number of tutoring services, private learning centres, schools, and consultants are listed in most yellow pages.

Before entering an agreement with any tutoring service, don't be afraid to check the qualifications of the tutors and ask for references. Remember. Your children are your most valuable investment and should be treated as such.

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